A little over a week ago, I was babysitting my niece. I got out of the car in the morning and first thing I felt was a bug bite...darn! I am allergic to mosquito bites and have been itching from them all summer! Knocking said bug off of my arm, I got my things out of the car and went inside, thinking nothing of the bite. I knew it would probably begin to itch a few moments later so I made a mental note of where the Cortisone cream was in my purse (Kind of disturbing that I keep a supply on me at all times! haha!) But it never really bothered me, so I focused on the ones on my legs which were making me insane instead :)
When I got back to work that Friday, I showed my newest bug bites to my friend. We are always examining each other's bites due to the fact that we are both allergic, hate bugs, and need time to vent while at work :) She looked at this particular bite on my arm and said, "I hope that isn't a tick bite." WHAT?!?! Immediately, she and I were both on Google images to see whether or not my bite looked like a bite that someone with Lyme's disease would have. Fortunately, every image we saw showed a bite with a bulls eye type marking...this was different from mine in that I didn't have the "extra" ring around the bite mark...I just had the bite which was white in the center and one red ring around it. I was good to go! Whew!
Fast forward to the next week when I was talking to one of the Nurse Coordinator's at work and she saw the bite and immediately asked if I had been tested for Lyme's disease...WHAT?!?! I thought I was good to go! I thought the headaches and muscle pains were just from the stress and anxiety of my daily life! I thought my neck hurting was due to the lack of sleep and headaches that would't go away...now I might have Lyme's disease?
The story is ongoing but here are the facts:
1. I got bit a week and a half ago and the mark is still there, but fairly faint. Apparently, there does NOT need to be a ring around the bite site to be a tick bite. There are multiple versions of the rash known as erythema migrans (how's THAT for a big word!) and my marking fits the bill. :(
2. I will need to be tested in the next week or so for Lyme's disease. If it shows up negative, I will need to be tested in approx. 6 weeks to make sure it wasn't a false negative result. Something about antibodies building up slowly...blah, blah...I don't understand medical speak, I just do what I'm told.
3. There could be two reasons for my headaches, muscle pain, neck stiffness, and constant fatigue
A. Early symptoms of the onset of Lyme's disease
B. Not taking care of myself and allowing my eating disorder to control my life
Hm, now there's a fun one to try and figure out. My point in all this is as follows: While I may have Lyme's disease and my symptoms may stem from that, I am still struggling with an eating disorder. I cannot allow ANYTHING else to compromise my treatment for said eating disorder. Lyme's disease cannot become an excuse to delve further into anorexia, though it is a VERY easy scapegoat. Due to fatigue and new medication, my stomach could not feel right and it would be easy to skip meals here and there. Because of joint and muscle pain, increased workouts to help alleviate that pain could ensue...Dietitian and therapist appointments could go by the wayside because of increased needs to see the family physician for blood test and antibiotic checks...
Knowing this ahead of time, however, can help prevent masking the primary problem. No matter if I do or do not have Lyme's disease, I am still in recovery from anorexia. And that CANNOT go down the tubes. Just because someone gets the flu does not eradicate the fact that they have cancer. If someone with MS gets diagnosed with bipolar disorder, that doesn't mean they're suddenly cured from MS.
Just because the symptoms may be similar, it does not mean that one is immediately cured of one problem to go and deal with another. Although that is what I would LIKE to see happen, I know that if I allow myself to believe that, I will only fall further.
As a note of hope, I give you the serenity prayer which has been around my neck all week:
**God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference**
Hoping for you!
~Kaitlyn